hey there, ok this is how everything happened… I broke up with my fiance 6 weeks ago (see here for more on that http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AtYW7zfqhS4jxT_WfAWSnhrsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080802195416AAmgCsS), anyway I keep in contact with her as a friend because she says I’m her best friend etc and that she knows I’ve always been there for her etc… sot hats fine untill i decide its too hard to cope with, then she starts trying to emotionally blackmail me into talking to her like by saying things about our past together and that she loves me etc. Now a few days ago she comes onto me saying she wants me back and I say no, I’m seeing someone else. she doesn’t like that and twists it around so that I’m made to feel bad but I stand my ground and say no then I say i don’t want to speak to her so she tries to emotionally blackmail me again… this time by saying she has breast cancer and that I’m the only person she’s told apart from her parents, now this was a very bad lie to tell me as my grandmother passed away from cancer a few years ago and she knows how touchy a subject it is for me. but still i stick to my guns and say no, so she starts telling em how much she hates me and stuff and drives me over the edge. I ended up uploading some intimate photographs of her onto the internet and sending a link to it to everyone she knows in the hopes of teaching her a lesson about playing with peoples feelings. but now I feel bad about it, and I really would love to speak to her again but her parents are forbidding it etc and I dunno what to do.

Any advice would be helpful
Thank you